Ok first download Hamachi here
http://files.hamachi.cc/HamachiSetup-1.0.2.1-en.exe
Install hamachi and start it up. Click on the left button down on your screen and
login to an excsiting network. Network name : amelos.ryl1.server to amelos.ryl1.server5 , just schoose one thats not full.
Now ur on the amelos hamachi channel. NOW you can enter the site
http://amelos.servegame.com and download the latest patch etc. You can now startup the game and join it, if connection is still blinking you must open up a port in your router. For every modem/router this is different too configure, but most of the time you must put the ip of your modem (internal) into your browser, there you can open the port in the configuration. Just open a port with 5 numbers in it, like 12345 , upen it as an UDP port. After you did this go into the advanced configuration of the connection setting in hamachi and click on the square for udp and enter the port you opened. In this case port 12345, now it should all work fine , if you STILL have the connection blinking error you should try this version of hamachi (older version)
http://files.hamachi.cc/priv/Hamachi....0.0.18-en.exe
That version works for some people when they cant solve the connection blinking error

This is all the help i can give

GL & HF on amelos server!